You'll notice that many super hotties will throw tantrums if they don't like what's going on or not getting their way. This is a sure sign that they are not living in the same reality as most people. When they don't get what they want, they get upset because this has worked since they were little. Now, on a subconscious level, I've noticed that most hot women realize that they are being ridiculous when they act like bitches, throw tantrum, etc, but it doesn't really matter because it still works for them when they want what they want.
Underneath all of this, they are still female and they are looking for what other females are looking for. What are women looking for? There is no exact answer on that question. It is always depending on them on what they always want. But, here's my take on it. First and foremost, they want a man that is in control -->of the situation, his emotion, other people, her .. contorl of the entire reality that they share. Let me ask you, if you were a woman that wanted to test a man to see if he will stay in contol, how would you do it? Would you ask the man "If I get out of hand, will you spank me and put me in my place?" NO WAY!!!
So they test us by CHALLENGING to see if we'll stay in control. The reason I do all of this "Never give a woman a direct answer.. unless it's NO.. Never give a woman exactly what she want" etc is, ironically, to give her what she really want... a man that's control. Woman want a challenge. Think romance novel themes.. if you don't know what I'm talking about, sit yourself down for a week and read Dangerous Men, Adventurous Women.. How to Succeed with women by being jerk, Endless Rapture and Bad Boys and think about it. Most of the time, I'm enjoying myself, talking about whatever comes up, making jokes, and generally behaving like a normal person.
But, Like anything else, if these techniques are used too much, they become worthless, so they must be used with precision and at the right moments. What's interesting is that because I usually (but not always) do these teasing and seemingly controlling things with a bit of a try humor spin, I believe that the women that I'm with has an internal response like ,"Wow, this guy is cocky, but I can't tell if he's serious or not.. and I want to find out, but either way, he's funny and he's staying interested in me, and not being flagrantly abusive.. so he must be interesting at some level.
They key is to WATCH FOR THE TEST and be ready when they come.
Most guys screw up when a woman acts bratty, when a woman gets upset, they say , "Oh, I'm sorry" and mess it up. Or they act nervous etc. You have to stay in control. If a woman start getting angry, instead of getting nervous, say , "Oh, poor baby is throwing a tantrum.. so what, you've been doing this same thing since you were 2 and you didn't get your way" -->Kedubusssss!! hehehe
Another realization that I've come to is that most women are totally intrigued by men that seem uninterested and crass. It's almost like they say to themselves "Wow, this guy seem kind of cocky.. and can't believe that he's not interested in having sex with me like all the other dumb pussies that I meet and when I do, I'll just dump him like the other loser.. but this might be fun.." GET IT?
But if you are going to act this wat, you have to keep it up until the end.. and I mean to the end.. I'm going to address the 'treating women well issues again. I treat women very well.. they always tell me that they've never met a man that treated them so well..
Underneath all of this, they are still female and they are looking for what other females are looking for. What are women looking for? There is no exact answer on that question. It is always depending on them on what they always want. But, here's my take on it. First and foremost, they want a man that is in control -->of the situation, his emotion, other people, her .. contorl of the entire reality that they share. Let me ask you, if you were a woman that wanted to test a man to see if he will stay in contol, how would you do it? Would you ask the man "If I get out of hand, will you spank me and put me in my place?" NO WAY!!!
So they test us by CHALLENGING to see if we'll stay in control. The reason I do all of this "Never give a woman a direct answer.. unless it's NO.. Never give a woman exactly what she want" etc is, ironically, to give her what she really want... a man that's control. Woman want a challenge. Think romance novel themes.. if you don't know what I'm talking about, sit yourself down for a week and read Dangerous Men, Adventurous Women.. How to Succeed with women by being jerk, Endless Rapture and Bad Boys and think about it. Most of the time, I'm enjoying myself, talking about whatever comes up, making jokes, and generally behaving like a normal person.
But, Like anything else, if these techniques are used too much, they become worthless, so they must be used with precision and at the right moments. What's interesting is that because I usually (but not always) do these teasing and seemingly controlling things with a bit of a try humor spin, I believe that the women that I'm with has an internal response like ,"Wow, this guy is cocky, but I can't tell if he's serious or not.. and I want to find out, but either way, he's funny and he's staying interested in me, and not being flagrantly abusive.. so he must be interesting at some level.
They key is to WATCH FOR THE TEST and be ready when they come.
Most guys screw up when a woman acts bratty, when a woman gets upset, they say , "Oh, I'm sorry" and mess it up. Or they act nervous etc. You have to stay in control. If a woman start getting angry, instead of getting nervous, say , "Oh, poor baby is throwing a tantrum.. so what, you've been doing this same thing since you were 2 and you didn't get your way" -->Kedubusssss!! hehehe
Another realization that I've come to is that most women are totally intrigued by men that seem uninterested and crass. It's almost like they say to themselves "Wow, this guy seem kind of cocky.. and can't believe that he's not interested in having sex with me like all the other dumb pussies that I meet and when I do, I'll just dump him like the other loser.. but this might be fun.." GET IT?
But if you are going to act this wat, you have to keep it up until the end.. and I mean to the end.. I'm going to address the 'treating women well issues again. I treat women very well.. they always tell me that they've never met a man that treated them so well..
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