Watch your behavior

In my experience, it's far better to attract a woman than to chase woman. If a woman is attracted to you, half the game is over. Let say there we are selling something, it's much easier to sell our product to someone who's called you and said "Can you help me?" than to try to sell to people who you've called cold.

By studying marketing and sales, I've learn that humans are attracted to things that uniique. They are also attracted to thing that are superior. So, be different in a preferential way. In the mating game, it's pays to be different in an attractive way. THE KEY IS BE DIFFERENT IN AN ATTRACTIVE WAY. But make sure that you're not too different. If you get too carreid away with this, you'll be outside of realm of 'normal' and you will wind up hurting yourself. So experience and test to see what works with you.

Insecurity and neediness are two of the biggest obstacles to success with woman. Insecurity and neediness are two sides of the same coin. A man is needy when he craves attention of recognition. He shows that he's insecure when he acts of these needs. Insecurity shows up when a man does not feel comfortable with who he is orin the situation that he's in. He acts tentative, week, and unsure. He tries to put on a show of confidence that is obvviously fake. He says things that are out of place in an attempt to get approval. WOMAN DETECT INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS INSTANTLY.

Here are some examples of insecurity and neediness to avoid:

-Hanging on a woman. Don't touch a woman or crowd her too much in the beginning. Instead, lean back and let her become comfortable being around you.

-Talking or saying negative things about women or past girlfriend. If you talk to much about past girlfriends or other women, or say negative about them, a woman will judge you to be insecure.

-Looking to other to make decisions. Women like it when you decide what's going to happen, then do it. If you are always asking "Well, what do you think I should do?" and "Where do you want to go tonight?" and "What do you want?" you'll come off as needy. Just make decisions and go with it. If she has a different idea, she'll let you know.

-Saying or doing things to just to be noticed or to get compliments. I've known a lot of men who try to act cool or show off to get attention. This telegraphs top a woman that you're insecure and needy. Don't do it. If you're cool, she'll figure it out without you telling her.

-Arguing. This is my favorite. Some people feel they need argue with everything. If you're one of these people, just realize that this is clear demonstration that you're insecure and needy. You may always be right, but being overly argumentative is bad for your sex life. Deal with it. If you really want to argue with something, do it in a funny way, not in a serious way.

Give your opinion

What do you think? Is seduction some kind of talent or science?

Skills

Having problem to face women? You just need a new skill. If you have some area of your life that isn't working for you, you probably need a new skill.

Meeting women comes down to skills. If you're having a problem in a particular area, get new skills to deal with it. For instance, if you have learned to meet women and get phone number, you might start having them flake out and not show up for planned meeting. Solution: A new skill. You need to learn the skill of getting women to meet you after making plans. There are many parts to being succesful with women, and they all work together. You may already know some of them, you need to learn like how and when to kiss a women, you'll still keep running into challenge.

Remember, if you're having challenge you need a skill.

Improve yourself

Ok.. let we start this conversation by asking you how much you have done for being attractive to woman. How much you have spend to buy a super hot cloths? Before you start to flirting or hang around with woman, you should started to work on yourself presentation. It's important to get every possible thing going for you that you can. Let say that you have messed up teeth, that doesn't prevent you from dressing well. Get cool hair style -you can ask a stylist what's cool and get help on this one. Buy nice clothes- don't tell me that you don't have the money, get on eBay or Amazon.com, go to the Nordstrom Rack and look at the clearance item. If you do just few key things, they won't necessarily HELP you attract women, but they'll get rid of thing that are preventing you from attracting women now that you don't realize.

Make no mistake about, if you're interested in attractive women, you'd better realize right now that these things make a difference. You don't have to work out ten times a week, but get you body in at least OK shape. You don't to have perfect teeth, but make sure that they're clean and you breath is great. Women notice details that most men don't. They notice if your belt and shoes match. They notice what kind of food you like to eat. They notice all the details, then make assumptions about every other area of you life based on these details. So learn what nice shoes are, and how to keep them nice. Figure out how colors and clothing go together and what is cool. It's worth it. And of course, don't over do it.

This is a list of random things to improve:
- Keep all nails on body short, clean and neat.
-The only place hair is good is on your hair. Keep all other hair trimmed, or have it removed. Nose and ear hairs are a no-no. Bushy eyebrows are a no-no. Bushy pubic hairs are a no-no.
-Keep the teeth clean. Get a tongue scraper and use it a lot. Floss. Use mouthwash. Fix any and blatantly wrong teeth. Do it.
-Wash yourself three times when you shower. Dirt and body odors don't come off with just a rinse. Wash your body completely three times before you meet a woman.
-Use a good deodorant.
-Keep feet, shoes, and socks ultra clean. No foot odor is permitted, period.
-Get a good cologne. Try Dolce and Gabanna, Cerruti Image, or Gaultier for men. And don't over do it. No cologne is better than a lot of cologne. One or two squirts, applied an hour before you're going to meet women is best.

Keep improving all the time, even if it's the smallest detail. Remember, women notice the details and assume you handle everything else the same way.

Where our desires come from

In psychology and behaviour's study, the most of our desires, drives, preferences, strengths, weakness, behaviour and personality traits are determined by our DNA and some by our social conditioning. It is like latgely a matter of programming from birth (read Myers-Briggs Type Indicators or book Who Am I?)

However, they got to be interested in these common things, most women have a few interest, need, desires or wahtever you want to call them when it come to men relationships and romance.
Have you ever listened to a group women talking about men? Even notice how they speak largely in some kind of code language and constantly make a big deal our of tiny details that seem totally irrelevent? Have you ever noticed hot attracted to drama most women are? -->> Drama accomplished a lot of things at once. It gets attention, it send emotions through the body (emotion are highly addictive chemicals), it's a way to be self righteous, it's often fun, it's interesting and prevent boredom, it gives things meaning. The are a lot of good reasons for drama fulfills needs that most men don't have.

It's like women saying "I hate it when all guy talk about sports." What needs to sports fulfill for men? Competition, adrenaline, power, domination and all the typical guy stuff. Incidentally, stuff that fulfills needs that women just plain don't have.

Men and women are completely different

In this world, there are only two types of human being or homosapien which is we call man and woman. Although, both of them have their six sense, have their own body, etc but the way they think and act are completely different. In this blog, I wanna share with you guy how to act and think about success with women. It's taken me a long time to fiugre out of the thing that you're about to learn. I've spent years on this.

So, to begin success with women, we (men) should know how women act and think. Every woman is a unique creature. But women have more commonalties than they have difference. Much of their behavior makes no sense at all (to men). This is because women THINK differently than most men and women want different thing things than most men.This is hard for many men to garsp or understand, but it's true. And as sooner you get a handle on what's going on here, the sooner you'll be more successfull with women.

Have you ever think what entertains women compared to what entertains men? Women buy Cosmopolitan magazine, watch soap opera, and read romance novels. Men buy Playboys, watch sport and read paper. I'll tell you why. It's because women's brain are wired differently from men's brain. And by telling you what attract women's attention, I've also given a clu how to attract them to you.

So let start off with this shft in thinking: Think about what the women that you're interested and need, and don't assume that these are the same thing hat you need and want. And don't assume that waht women want is going to make any sense at all to you, because it probally won't. :-).