Watch your behavior

In my experience, it's far better to attract a woman than to chase woman. If a woman is attracted to you, half the game is over. Let say there we are selling something, it's much easier to sell our product to someone who's called you and said "Can you help me?" than to try to sell to people who you've called cold.

By studying marketing and sales, I've learn that humans are attracted to things that uniique. They are also attracted to thing that are superior. So, be different in a preferential way. In the mating game, it's pays to be different in an attractive way. THE KEY IS BE DIFFERENT IN AN ATTRACTIVE WAY. But make sure that you're not too different. If you get too carreid away with this, you'll be outside of realm of 'normal' and you will wind up hurting yourself. So experience and test to see what works with you.

Insecurity and neediness are two of the biggest obstacles to success with woman. Insecurity and neediness are two sides of the same coin. A man is needy when he craves attention of recognition. He shows that he's insecure when he acts of these needs. Insecurity shows up when a man does not feel comfortable with who he is orin the situation that he's in. He acts tentative, week, and unsure. He tries to put on a show of confidence that is obvviously fake. He says things that are out of place in an attempt to get approval. WOMAN DETECT INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS INSTANTLY.

Here are some examples of insecurity and neediness to avoid:

-Hanging on a woman. Don't touch a woman or crowd her too much in the beginning. Instead, lean back and let her become comfortable being around you.

-Talking or saying negative things about women or past girlfriend. If you talk to much about past girlfriends or other women, or say negative about them, a woman will judge you to be insecure.

-Looking to other to make decisions. Women like it when you decide what's going to happen, then do it. If you are always asking "Well, what do you think I should do?" and "Where do you want to go tonight?" and "What do you want?" you'll come off as needy. Just make decisions and go with it. If she has a different idea, she'll let you know.

-Saying or doing things to just to be noticed or to get compliments. I've known a lot of men who try to act cool or show off to get attention. This telegraphs top a woman that you're insecure and needy. Don't do it. If you're cool, she'll figure it out without you telling her.

-Arguing. This is my favorite. Some people feel they need argue with everything. If you're one of these people, just realize that this is clear demonstration that you're insecure and needy. You may always be right, but being overly argumentative is bad for your sex life. Deal with it. If you really want to argue with something, do it in a funny way, not in a serious way.