Friday, August 15, 2008

Personality trait that attract women.




In this post, i love to share with you some personality trait that women find most attractive. Some are better when used with other, and some don't work well together. Look at yourself and find out do you have any of them. If you have them, polish them and make it useful for you.

*Funny*
Humor is just plain powerful with women. If you can keep her laughing, you will go far.

*Intelligent and creative*
Intelligence is sexy if it's used in a way that's interesting to her. Use your creativity and intelligence to surprise her with idea, fantasies and unexpected things that charm her.

*Educated*
Education is attractive to women as long as it's used in an interesting way. Some women are actually intimidated by education, as they're not educated (This usually works in your favor)

*Classy and cultured*
If you have class, women pick up on this. Do your shoes and belt match? Do you understand interior design and color contrast? Do you know about different types of wine? Do you like foreign movies? Do you understand fashion? Women notice this stuff BIG TIME.

*Dominant*
Women have an unconscious attraction to dominant men. The dominant males in some primate groups account for up to 75 percent of all the matings, while the less dominant males go without. Same goes for humans.

*Thoughtful*
Women don't just like gift, they like knowing that you were thinking of them. The gift is a symbol. Women feel the same amount of good inside whether it's a card or a diomand. But the fact is that women like to know that you're thinking about them. Even if you're telling a woman that you don't like it that she was out with another guy, she'll like it, because it means you were thinking about her!

*Notices significant details*
Women don't just notice details, they USE them to try to be attractive and attentive. If she is wearing a sexy outfit, she didn't put it on by accident. If her hair is done nicely, it wasn't a fluke. Women are very impressed and attracted to men that notice these details.

*Unpredictable/predictable*
Here's a paradox. Women are drawn to men that they can't control or predict. They obsess over guy who flirt and give them attention, then don't call the next day. Predictability is only attractive when it come to choosing a HUSBAND. Then a woman usually wants a man who's very predictable.

*Enthusiastic, Fun, Happy*
Nothing is bigger turn off than a killjoy. Some men get upset and pout when a women is happy and try to put down the things that she enjoys to sound superior. THis is usually a HUGE mistake. Enthusiasm is infectious and attractive.

*Adventurous*
Women are instantly attracted to men who like to do extreme, adventurous, unusual, even dangerous things. It's exciting. Adventurism is sexy.

*Aggressive*
Women love men that know what they want and go after it. Passion is a sign of life. I was talking about the kind of aggressive that turns into setting goal and then going after it with passion and getting it no matter what.

*Confident/cocky*
Women are magnetically attracted to men who are just a little bit too cocky. Just a little bit. The confident/cocky trait is mild overconfidence a combined with humor. Drives women wild.

*Expertise*
If you're an expert in an area that is interesting to your kind of woman, this can be attractive. It needs to be presented from a "I know a lot about this, let me show you" prespective, not a "I'm cool and you're not" angle/

*Attention*
Women like attention. If you say "I was thinking about you earlier today. And I just wanted to mention that I really like sound of your voice.." it's much powerful than listening to them complain about something so they think you're paying attention.

*Disinterest, Indifference, a challenge*
Most women are used to being perused by men in one way or another. If you are indifferent to a woman, make her think that you're only calling because you're bored, and act almost disinterested sexually, they'll often do their best to get your attention. Different is good in this case.

*Charm*
(attention with a polished, smooth approach). This is a hard to describe. Watch a James Bond movie to get an idea. And watch 'Dirty Rotten Scoundrels'. Pay attention to Micheal Cain's character. Charm is powerful because it has a certain 'prince on a white horse' aspect to it.

*Romantic, Imagination and perspective*
A romantic imagination sees opportunities for poetic comments, interesting stories, fascinating history, and emotional interpretation in everything.

*Expert in body language*
This is important, as women are constantly sending signals.

*Sexual Mastery*
Women love sex just as much as men do. But just like everything else in life, a great lover is not easy to find. Women become instantly addicted to skillful lover who know how to make them feel ecstasy and teach them new ways of feeling incredible.

Every women is slightly different. There is no one magic system that every women responds to. If what you're doing doesn't work, don't throw out the system. Try it on a different women. So start right now. Take a moment and describe the type of woman that you'd like to attract. Then write down the qualities that you think will attract her. Then go to work cultivating these quality.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

The six thing that attract women




I believe that there are six thing that will make women attracted.

1.)Means (Wealth, possessions, gift to them or providing for them) 2.)Power (Influence, leadership, provide safety) 3.)Fame 4.)Looks (Including height) 5.)Exclusivity (Royalty, already married, hard to get, affiliation) 6.)Persenolity (Humor, creativity, romance, intelligence, mystique etc.)

Now, numbers one through five are largely out of your immediate control. If you're not rich, you're probably not going to get rich this week. If you're not famous or tall, you're probably not going to be in a hit movie or grow 6 inches in the next 24 hours.

So that leaves us with number six, PERSONALITY.
The good news is that as far as I'm concerned, your personality is your greatest asset in the success-with-women game.

Fortunately, it's the one thing you can change. And it's the one thing that can overcome all of the rest. After you've done what you can to look your best, etc. you have to develop a personality that's absolutely magnetic. By the way, the one quality that attract women the most (end keeps them attracted) is not something that they can initially 'look' for. It's the way they feel when thwy are with you or thinking of you. In the end, if you don't have wealth, power, fame, or looks you're going to have to use your personality to make them feel good. In the end, your personality is the most powerful weapon you have.

How men usually find women


There is some same behaviour between human and animals when we talking about mating and courtships behavior. Here are the mains ways male animals (human included) find females:

-Staking out a small territory among other males where females come specifically to select between males who are displaying for them (called Lekking in the animals kingdom).

-Staking out a larger territory where where other males aren't allowed and showing they can provide for a female because they control a large territory.

-Visiting places where females gather or are likely to be and displaying for them.

-Choosing a spot where they are very visible and displaying in hopes that a passing female will show interest.

Some human equivalent of these are:

-Hanging out at a gym or on the beach with other guys to show off for women.

-Buying a big house and inviting women over to see how successful and rich you are, and that you can provide for them.

-Going to Yoga class where you know there will be 10 women for every man.

-Becoming famous or popular, thus placing yourself in the path of many women.

The point is, there's nothing new under the sun. If you want to meet women, you have to:

1.)Decide what kind of women you want/ 2.)Find out what is attractive to her and be it. 3.)Go where these women are likely to be (or set up a situation where they come to you) 4.)Approach them and engage (or, if you can figure out how to get them to approach you, do it)

It's all the same game. Most men that are failure with women aren't willing to do what it takes to be successful. That's the bottom line. So "ARE YOU WILLING TO DO THE WORK THAT IT WILL TAKE TO BE SUCCESSFUL?"