Friday, August 15, 2008

Personality trait that attract women.




In this post, i love to share with you some personality trait that women find most attractive. Some are better when used with other, and some don't work well together. Look at yourself and find out do you have any of them. If you have them, polish them and make it useful for you.

*Funny*
Humor is just plain powerful with women. If you can keep her laughing, you will go far.

*Intelligent and creative*
Intelligence is sexy if it's used in a way that's interesting to her. Use your creativity and intelligence to surprise her with idea, fantasies and unexpected things that charm her.

*Educated*
Education is attractive to women as long as it's used in an interesting way. Some women are actually intimidated by education, as they're not educated (This usually works in your favor)

*Classy and cultured*
If you have class, women pick up on this. Do your shoes and belt match? Do you understand interior design and color contrast? Do you know about different types of wine? Do you like foreign movies? Do you understand fashion? Women notice this stuff BIG TIME.

*Dominant*
Women have an unconscious attraction to dominant men. The dominant males in some primate groups account for up to 75 percent of all the matings, while the less dominant males go without. Same goes for humans.

*Thoughtful*
Women don't just like gift, they like knowing that you were thinking of them. The gift is a symbol. Women feel the same amount of good inside whether it's a card or a diomand. But the fact is that women like to know that you're thinking about them. Even if you're telling a woman that you don't like it that she was out with another guy, she'll like it, because it means you were thinking about her!

*Notices significant details*
Women don't just notice details, they USE them to try to be attractive and attentive. If she is wearing a sexy outfit, she didn't put it on by accident. If her hair is done nicely, it wasn't a fluke. Women are very impressed and attracted to men that notice these details.

*Unpredictable/predictable*
Here's a paradox. Women are drawn to men that they can't control or predict. They obsess over guy who flirt and give them attention, then don't call the next day. Predictability is only attractive when it come to choosing a HUSBAND. Then a woman usually wants a man who's very predictable.

*Enthusiastic, Fun, Happy*
Nothing is bigger turn off than a killjoy. Some men get upset and pout when a women is happy and try to put down the things that she enjoys to sound superior. THis is usually a HUGE mistake. Enthusiasm is infectious and attractive.

*Adventurous*
Women are instantly attracted to men who like to do extreme, adventurous, unusual, even dangerous things. It's exciting. Adventurism is sexy.

*Aggressive*
Women love men that know what they want and go after it. Passion is a sign of life. I was talking about the kind of aggressive that turns into setting goal and then going after it with passion and getting it no matter what.

*Confident/cocky*
Women are magnetically attracted to men who are just a little bit too cocky. Just a little bit. The confident/cocky trait is mild overconfidence a combined with humor. Drives women wild.

*Expertise*
If you're an expert in an area that is interesting to your kind of woman, this can be attractive. It needs to be presented from a "I know a lot about this, let me show you" prespective, not a "I'm cool and you're not" angle/

*Attention*
Women like attention. If you say "I was thinking about you earlier today. And I just wanted to mention that I really like sound of your voice.." it's much powerful than listening to them complain about something so they think you're paying attention.

*Disinterest, Indifference, a challenge*
Most women are used to being perused by men in one way or another. If you are indifferent to a woman, make her think that you're only calling because you're bored, and act almost disinterested sexually, they'll often do their best to get your attention. Different is good in this case.

*Charm*
(attention with a polished, smooth approach). This is a hard to describe. Watch a James Bond movie to get an idea. And watch 'Dirty Rotten Scoundrels'. Pay attention to Micheal Cain's character. Charm is powerful because it has a certain 'prince on a white horse' aspect to it.

*Romantic, Imagination and perspective*
A romantic imagination sees opportunities for poetic comments, interesting stories, fascinating history, and emotional interpretation in everything.

*Expert in body language*
This is important, as women are constantly sending signals.

*Sexual Mastery*
Women love sex just as much as men do. But just like everything else in life, a great lover is not easy to find. Women become instantly addicted to skillful lover who know how to make them feel ecstasy and teach them new ways of feeling incredible.

Every women is slightly different. There is no one magic system that every women responds to. If what you're doing doesn't work, don't throw out the system. Try it on a different women. So start right now. Take a moment and describe the type of woman that you'd like to attract. Then write down the qualities that you think will attract her. Then go to work cultivating these quality.

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