Monday, July 7, 2008

Where our desires come from


In psychology and behaviour's study, the most of our desires, drives, preferences, strengths, weakness, behaviour and personality traits are determined by our DNA and some by our social conditioning. It is like latgely a matter of programming from birth (read Myers-Briggs Type Indicators or book Who Am I?)


However, they got to be interested in these common things, most women have a few interest, need, desires or wahtever you want to call them when it come to men relationships and romance.
Have you ever listened to a group women talking about men? Even notice how they speak largely in some kind of code language and constantly make a big deal our of tiny details that seem totally irrelevent? Have you ever noticed hot attracted to drama most women are? -->> Drama accomplished a lot of things at once. It gets attention, it send emotions through the body (emotion are highly addictive chemicals), it's a way to be self righteous, it's often fun, it's interesting and prevent boredom, it gives things meaning. The are a lot of good reasons for drama fulfills needs that most men don't have.


It's like women saying "I hate it when all guy talk about sports." What needs to sports fulfill for men? Competition, adrenaline, power, domination and all the typical guy stuff. Incidentally, stuff that fulfills needs that women just plain don't have.

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